爱远不只是爱

与 Love Is Much More than Love 对照
亨利·卡法雷尔神父
爱远不只是爱

学习主题结构与章节安排

Study Theme Structure and Chapter Organization

本研读主题的前三章构成了一个整体，对应着题为《L’amour est bien plus que l’amour》（爱远不只是爱）的章节。该文曾以相同标题发表于1964年5-6月的《金戒指》杂志，那期特刊收录了亨利·卡法雷尔神父的八篇文章；此文源自他在巴黎教区为培养或陪伴慕道者的教理讲授员（包括平信徒和修会会士）所做的一次讲座。

The first three chapters of the study theme form a block that corresponds to the chapter entitled L’amour est bien plus que l’amour (Love is much more than love). This is a text published under the same title in the magazine L’Anneau d’Or in May-June 1964, in a special issue with 8 articles by Father Henri Caffarel; it is taken from a lecture given to catechists, lay people and religious who were training or accompanying catechumens in the Paris diocese.

本研读主题的第一章呈现以下部分：

The first chapter of the theme presents sections on:

  • 幸福与爱的凝视。
  • Happiness and the gaze of love.

第二章对应的是：

The second chapter corresponds to the section on:

  • 夫妻沟通。
  • Conjugal communication.

第三章对应其他部分，探讨亨利·卡法雷尔神父所说的

The third chapter corresponds to the other sections and deals with what Father Henri Caffarel calls

  • 不完整性：「一个指称两个不完整的存在结合的词，他们需要彼此，也需要恩典。」
  • Incompleteness “A word that designates the union of two incomplete beings in need of each other and of grace”.

学习主题的第四章对应书中题为《爱的圣召》一章的几个部分。此文最初以《爱的奥秘》为名发表于1945年7月的《金戒指》杂志上。

The fourth chapter of the study theme corresponds to several parts of the book chapter entitled La Vocation de l’Amour (The Vocation of Love). It was published in L’Anneau d’Or magazine in July 1945, under the title Le Mystère de l’Amour

  • 爱的奥秘。
  • The Mystery of Love.

第五章对应题为《致受苦的家庭》的章节内的若干段落，该章节致力于提出一般性建议，以帮助避免对夫妻间的疏远听之任之。该文于1947年5月至8月发表在《金戒指》杂志上，标题为《爱与痛苦》（致受苦的家庭）。

The fifth chapter corresponds to several sections of the chapter entitled Aux foyers qui souffrent, devoted to general proposals to help avoid resignation to estrangement between spouses. It was published in L’Anneau d’Or magazine in May-August 1947, under the title Amour et souffrance (aux foyers qui souffrent)

  • 爱与痛苦（致受苦的家庭）。
  • Love and suffering (for suffering households).

学习主题的第六章与第七章对应题为《家庭与基督的诫命》一书的文本，共分为两部分：

Chapters six and seven of the study theme correspond to the text of the book entitled Le foyer et le commandement du Christ (The Home and the Commandment of Christ), divided into two parts:

  • 培育夫妻之爱，及

  • 夫妻共融。此文曾发表于《金戒指》杂志，题为《婚姻：迈向神之路》，1964年5-6月刊。

  • Cultivate married love and

  • Conjugal communion. This text was published in the magazine L’Anneau d’Or, entitled Mariage, chemin vers Dieu, May-June 1964.

学习主题的第八也是最后一章：

The eighth and final chapter of the study theme:

  • 夫妻的见证
  • The witness of the couple

对应1970年5月5日，在保禄六世演讲之后，亨利·卡法雷尔神父所作题为《直面无神论》讲座的结语部分。

corresponds to the final part of a conference entitled Face à l’athéisme (Facing atheism) given by Father Henri Caffarel on May 5, 1970, after Paul VI’s speech.

每章结尾都附有基本和核心内容的简短总结，之后是问题与导读文本，以帮助你准备对谈。这些导读文本摘自《夫妻之爱，通往神之路》一书，该书由一群夫妇组成的婚姻研讨小组于2015年编撰而成。构成前七章指导内容的文本，来自该书的第二章，对应于「夫妻人类学」；第八章的指导文本则来自该书的第五章与第六章，题为《婚姻、家庭及社会生活中的道德与伦理》，以及《夫妻在团队、家庭、社会及教会生活中的地位与角色》。随后是一系列准备对谈作业的问题。无需回答每一个问题。为了团队会议，我们提供了神的道中的经文来引导我们的祷告，以及会议期间可供分享的问题。与夫妻的对谈及其准备问题一样，团队可以决定哪些问题作为本次主题交流的重点，也可以选择是否分享一些在对谈作业中处理过的问题，无论是在分享「努力实践」（具体努力点）环节，还是在主题讨论的时间内。

At the end of each chapter is a short summary of the essential and fundamental content followed by questions and introductory texts to help you prepare for the sit-down. The introductory texts come from the book “L’amour conjugal, chemin vers Dieu”, produced by a group of couples who formed the Marriage Workshop in 2015. The texts that make up the guidelines for the first seven chapters come from chapter 2 of this book, corresponding to the Anthropology of the couple, and that of chapter 8 are two paragraphs from chapters 5 and 6 entitled: Morale et éthique dans la vie conjugale, familiale et sociale (Morals and ethics in married, family and social life), and the Place et le rôle du couple dans la vie de l’équipe, de la famille, de la société et de l’Eglise (Place and role of the couple in the life of the team, the family, society and the Church). A series of questions to prepare for the sit-down assignment follows. It is not necessary to answer every question. For the team meeting, text from the Word of God was provided to guide our prayer, and questions to share during the meeting. As with the couple and the questions for the Sit Down, the team can decide which questions will be the focus of the exchange on the theme, and whether it wishes to share some of those dealt with in the Sit-Down assignment, either during the sharing on Endeavors (concrete points of effort) or during the time of the theme discussion.

引言目录第一章：爱远不只是爱